Elaine Swann’s Book of Modern Etiquette is my definitive guide to navigating life with grace, confidence, and care in today’s ever-evolving world. With over two decades of experience as an etiquette expert, I’ve created this book to help you show up fully and beautifully in every area of your life, from everyday encounters to once-in-a-lifetime moments.

Inside these pages, I share my best advice on everything from weddings and celebrations to digital communication and workplace dynamics. Whether you're hosting a holiday gathering, attending a formal dinner, managing a group chat, or wondering how to set the table at home, you’ll find thoughtful, practical guidance designed to meet you where you are.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• How to handle weddings with modern grace, whether you're the guest, the couple, or part of the wedding party

• How to host memorable events throughout the year, with inspiration for décor, menus, fragrances, and thoughtful parting gifts

• How to set a beautiful table and entertain at home with ease

• How to master fine dining etiquette, including both American and Continental styles

• How to communicate clearly and respectfully across platforms such as email, text, video calls, and social media

• How to navigate tipping, gifting, travel, and professional etiquette

• How to show up with confidence in interviews, public spaces, dates, and high-stakes social situations

And because one of the biggest questions I get is, “What do I say when…?” I included exactly that. I guide you through the words to use in challenging moments, such as setting boundaries, declining invitations, correcting someone politely, or responding to rudeness with class. These scripts are there to help you protect your peace while staying true to your values.

You’ll also find my take on today’s trickiest digital dilemmas, from FaceTime and group chats to your online image and virtual meetings, so you can keep your tech life just as polished as your real-world presence.

This book isn’t just about etiquette. It’s about leading with kindness, living with intention, and embracing a lifestyle that reflects your highest self. Whether you’re entering a new season of life or simply want to refine the one you’re in, I wrote this for you.

Let’s set a new standard for modern etiquette together.

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